Panhaka yemurume wake akaurayiwa, anoramba achidada. "Ndinonzwa kudada, kudada zvakanyanya," akadaro Jehan Sadat, aimbova Mukadzi Wekutanga weRepublic of Egypt. Asinganetseki, asingatyisidzirwi nemashoko akaipa, akataura asingazezi, “Vakapomera murume wangu kuva mutengesi, asi hapana akaita rugare zvishoma nezvishoma asi zvirokwazvo naIsraeri sezvakaita Sadat.”
Mabara aikwanisa kunge akaputira muviri wake usina bara musina musi waGumiguru 1981, apo Sadat akapondwa pamusangano wemauto wairangarira kukunda kweEgypt muna Gumiguru 1973. Hapana chakabaya mweya waJehan. “Pamwechete nemhuri yangu nemamiriyoni evanhu, ndinodada nezvakaitwa nemurume wangu. Kunyangwe vanhu, nyika nevatungamiri vechiArab vaimbomupikisa zvino vanowana huchenjeri kubva mukuita kwake makore makumi maviri nemanomwe akatevera,” akadaro achinongedzera kunhamburiko dzake dzekuchengetedza runyararo.
Akachata neMutungamiriri weEgypt akanonoka Anwar Sadat, Jehan ave mumiriri akazvipira kuvakadzi nevanoshaya. Iye anovhara pakati peEgypt neUS achisimudzira zvibodzwa, iyo kodhi Yemahara Officer Sadat akararamira, iko zvino kupisa mukati memukati meJehan. Munguva yaAnwar, akaona mukana mukuita basa guru mukudzivirira kodzero dzevakadzi. “Murume wangu akanga ari mutsigiri asinganeti wekodzero dzevakadzi, simba uye nzvimbo yake yakakodzera munzanga. Dai vakadzi vakangodzidza, dai vakadzi vakangobatsira varume kuvaka nzanga yakanaka iyoyo, nyika yaizova yakakwana. Kana hafu yevanhu vasina chayakaita, nguva ichamira nokuda kworudzi rwomunhu.
Ongorora nzanga inofambira mberi ine mararamiro epamusoro-soro, unongoda kutarisa mabasa anoitwa nevakadzi kutsanangura kubudirira munharaunda. Ndizvo zvandinotenda – chikonzero ndinoshandira kusimudzira vanhukadzi,” akadaro.
Vakagashira mubairo waidiwa zvikuru weLiving Legacy Award weWomen's International Centre, Mai Sadat vakaratidza muenzaniso wetariro kuburikidza nedzidzo zvisinei nezera ripi zvaro. Souchapupu, iye pachake akadzokera kuchikoro ava nemakore 40. “Ndakapedza kudzidza kuyunivhesiti ndokupfuurira MA yangu. Mushure memakore matanhatu, ndakanga ndava nePHD yangu. Dzidzo inovhura mikova yakati wandei yekuti munhu ashande pese pese. Dai ndisina kuva nedzidzo chaiyo, ndingadai ndisina kudzidzisa muEgypt neUnited States.” Nhasi, ane nzendo dzehurukuro pasi rese kubva kuEurope, kuenda kuAsia neRussia achitsigirwa nenzvimbo dzekudzidzisa dzakapfuura paYunivhesiti yeCairo kwaaimbove purofesa achishanda seMukadzi wekutanga.
Pahurukuro yakataurwa zvakafara, “Ndinodavira kuti vakadzi vanogona kuita basa riri nani mukuparadzira rugare. Vakadzi ndivo vanaamai vanoyananisa vana kana vachinge vachinetsana nenyaya dzenhando kana kuti madzimai akamira parutivi pevarume vavo munguva dzekutambudzika. Ini ndinotenda mune rakasiyana basa remukadzi anoita vatungamiriri vakuru kubva muvarume nevakomana. Anopa ruzivo uye nheyo dzakanakisisa muhuduku hwake kubva pauduku kusvika paukuru. Saka vakadzi havafanire kungoona basa ravo muvanhu sechisikigo kana kuti kuzvisarudzira chete, asi kuti vatarise hunhu hunokoshera dzidzo. Ndinoshuva kuona vakadzi munyika dzose vakadzidza zvikuru.”
Kutsvaga kuverenga ndizvo zvinoshuwirwa naMuzvinafundo Sadat kune vese. “Hazvina kumbonyanyononoka! Rwendo rurefu rwakakodzera kumirira,” akadaro munyaradzi achitaura ega.
Kana zvaive zvakakodzera nguva, zvaive zvakakoshawo kuedza kuratidza vamwe vakadzi vekutanga chimiro chake semudzimai wemutungamiri wenyika. Sangano rekutanga reAfrica-Arab Women's League raive rimwe remasangano akati wandei aakaita semudzimai wekutanga. Achiunganidza Madzimai ekutanga emuAfrica nemaArabu, nemadzimai maviri kana matatu aishingaira munharaunda, akaita misangano mikuru iyo yavakagovana nayo nekudzidza kubva pane zvakaitika kune mumwe nemumwe. "Kuti tibatsirane, kuvaka kubatana pakati peEgypt, Africa nedzimwe nyika dzechiArab chaive chinangwa changu, kuziva kuti vanhukadzi vanotambura mudunhu rese vane nyaya dzakafanana pakuverenga, dzidzo, zvemari uye ramangwana revana." Mai Sadat vakaendesa Madzimai kuzvinhu zvekare kuEgypt, kuenda nechikepe paNairi uye kumatemberi akawanda ekare. Nehurombo, pakanga pasati pave nekuteedzerwa kubva zvaakabva kuPalace. Mushure mekufa kwaPresident Sadat, mapurojekiti avo avaidaidza kuti Made in Egypt nezvimwe zvavakanga vatungamira murume wavo asati afa zvakatorwa nemutsivi wavo Mai Suzanne Mubarak.
Jehan akaenderera mberi uye akazoisa pfungwa padzidzo. “Ndaidzidzisa kuCairo University panguva yemurume wangu. Gare gare ndakatamira kuWashington, DC kunodzidzisa.” Vana vakanga vari pachirongwa chikuru chaSadat, aine vatatu vake uye vazukuru gumi nomumwe. Misha Yevana yeSOS yakatangwa munguva yaSadat mushure merwendo rwokuenda kuAustria. Misha iyi yaive musha wenherera pamwero mukuru. “Ndichifadzwa pashure pokunge ndapedza zuva ndiine vana ikoko, uye ndichitarisira kuti ndinogona kuita zvimwe chetezvo muEgypt, ndakazogutsikana kuti ndaifanira kufambira mberi.”
Kutanga sangano rekubatsira vakadzi, vana kana vechidiki muEgypt zvinoda kuti munhu abhadhare mari shoma yesaiti, ingangoita dhora paeka. Sadat aive nenyika. Dr. Kamaina vakaparura misha muAustria vakamudaidza kuti vaite zvirongwa zvakafanana muEgypt, kana vakakwanisa kugovera maturakiti evhu kuSOS. Kamaina akapa basa racho kwaari; kubva ipapo musha wakanga wava mumaoko ake. “Murume wangu ndiye akatanga musha wekutanga muCairo. Gare gare, ndakavaka imwe muTanta pakati peCairo neAlexandria nenzvimbo yechitatu muAlexandria. Handikwanise kukuudzai kuti vana vakauya nenhamo pakutanga vakachinja sei uye vakura vakasimba uye vachifara,” akawedzera.
Kusiyana nedzimwe nzvimbo dzinochengeterwa nherera, musha uyu waive na'amai' vanotarisira vana 6 kusvika ku7 vanobva kwakasiyana. Musha wega wega waive nedzimba makumi maviri neshanu pasi pemuchengeti 'akadzidziswa' kana amai vakamira. Yakasiyana kune yekumisikidza, vagari vemumusha vanotaridzika seimwe hombe, yakajairika, mhuri inofara. Vanamai 'Surrogate' vaibika nekuwachira vana vaienda kukireshi kana kuzvikoro zveveruzhinji uye gare gare muzuva vakawana imba yekudzokera. "Pakazere, zvakateedzera mamiriro erudo rwaamai-wemhuri, kusimudza mararamiro evakadzi mumaguta ari kure," Sadat akasimbisa.
Wafa wal Aamal (kana kuti Faith and Hope muChirungu) isangano rinoyamura naMai Sadat rakabatsira kuchengetedza zviuru zvevakaremara. Akabatanidzwa muhondo pakati peEgypt neIsrael, akagadzira zano guru. “Kunyange murume wangu asati atanga kuita runyararo kuti hondo ipere, ndakazvibatanidza nevarwi vehondo vakaremara uye vanhuwo zvavo. Ndaida zvechokwadi kupa tariro kuvanhu vangu nokudzidzisa vakadimburwa mabasa, nokuvabvumira kudzokera senhengo dzinoshingaira dzenzanga.”
Kutyaira kwake kumashure kweFaith naTariro kwakabva pakudzidzisa varwi vehondo vaishaya kuti vaedze kujoinha nharaunda netarisiro yemangwana. “Chaive chirongwa changu chikuru pane vasina rombo rakanaka. Ndakavaendesa kumisasa yevakaremara muGermany; zvino vaizodzokera kuEgipita. Takaita maexchange visit tichivatumira kuzvipatara zvedu ikoko. KuEgypt, takavhura nzvimbo yedialysis pamwe nefekitori inogadzira prosthetics. Imwe purojekiti yakatarisana neSOS Village yakatora chikamu chiduku chevhu reSOS kuti pave nedzimba dzevakaremara, nzvimbo yezviitwa zvemukati nekunze uye chikwata chekutarisa chezvehutano chakasimba. Ndakatounza Frank Sinatra kuEgypt kune konzati iyo mari yakaenda kuSOS neWafa wal Aamal, yakabatanidzwa. "
Aona kuparadza kwehondo pachake, mukadzi akanaka uyu, ane matsutso nezvitubu zvinopedzerwa mumusha wake wechipiri muGreat Falls muVirginia, anotora nyaya yerunyararo zvakanyanya. Akati, “Vakadzi vanogona kuita basa pamwe chete nevarume vavo nevana vavo. Vapei mukana wekutora mutsara, vanogona kukunda muhondo yekupedza hondo nemhirizhonga. "
