Hapana hondo kuIran, nyika inowanzo chengeteka, uye hupenyu hwehupenyu hwakaenzana neiyo yeEurope. Izvo zvivakwa zvinoyevedza, nzvimbo dzakasiyana uye vanhu .. vanhu veIran ndivo vakanakisa. Ivo vane moyo unoshamisa uye vane hushamwari, uye vanogara vachishuwira kusangana nevatorwa nemusuwo wakashama uye mukombe wechai. Iyo inoshamisa nyika inoshamisa.
Handina kumbobvira ndamboenda kune imwe nyika iyo iyo fungidziro dzayo dziri kure kwazvo kubva pachokwadi.
Zvakangodaro, kukwira mota muIran kunogona kuva kwakaoma, zvisinei kana uri murume wechikadzi. Ruzhinji rwenyika harusati rwambonzwa nezvemazwi ekuti 'kurova' kana 'autostop', ndoda kuziva kuti zvinorevei. Ukangoyambuka muganhu uchienda kumabvazuva uchibva kuArmenia kana kuTurkey unowana matani evanhu vachikumirira pasina dambudziko, asi nechinangwa chega chekuunza uyu mushanyi akarasika kunzvimbo yemabhazi iri padyo (padhuze nekukukoka iwe chai kana kudya kumba kwavo).
Izvo zvakare hazvibatsire ndezvekuti kuIran chiratidzo che 'zvigunwe kumusoro' chinoreva chimwe chinhu chinotuka, saka uchafanirwa kusimudzira ruoko rwako kuti mota dzimire. Semukadzi, iwe uchasangana nekutonyanya kushamisa kutaridzika uye mamiriro asingatsanangurike, sevakadzi muIran havawanzo kufamba vega.
Sei uchirovera kunge mukadzi?
Vanhu veIran vane mutsa kwazvo, uye vanogara vakagadzirira kubatsira mukadzi (kana murume) anoda. Kutsanangura kuti haudi rubatsiro, vanokwanisa zvakakwana kuzvitarisira uye chaizvo nakidzwa ndakamira padivi penzira huru yekumirira mota, chimwe chinhu vanhu vakawanda vanoita sevasingakwanise kuwana. Kuedza kurova hitchhike (kana musasa wemusango) pamwe chete nemumwe mukadzi mufambi kwakandidzidza kuti vanhu havagone kana kusarudza kusanzwisisa zvaunoda kuita, sezvo iri nzira ine njodzi zvakanyanya mumaonero avo. Panzvimbo iyoyo, ivo vanokuendesa iwe kuchiteshi chebhazi, kukupinza iwe mune tekisi, kukunyorera iwe kubatsira masaini emapurisa kana kukuperekedza iwe mubhazi. Sezvo ini ndakarova mamwe mazuva nemukomana futi, mutsauko waive wakajeka. Ndiine murume parutivi rwangu, vanhu vakatidonhedza padhuze nemugwagwa mukuru uye ngatiitei musasa wemusango (pakupedzisira). Chokwadi, ivo vaive vachiri vakavhiringidzika uye vakatikoka kudzimba dzavo pachinzvimbo, asi chokwadi chekuti mutongo 'izvo zvine ngozi kwazvo kwauri' wakadzikiswa kubva pagumi kusvika kamwe chete pazuva kunoratidza kukura kwakaita mukaha wechikadzi.
Saka chii chandinofanira kuita, semukadzi akazvimiririra uyo akazviita munzira yose yekukwira kubva kuNetherlands kuenda kuIran, kana ndakatarisana nehupombwe hwakadai?
Ehe, ini handina kungopa mukati ..
Kunyangwe vanhu vari munyika muno vari kunetsekana zvakanyanya nezve mafungiro nemafungiro evakadzi vanofamba, Iran iri chaizvo yakachengeteka. Kazhinji, chinetso chikuru kuvakadzi vanofamba vega ndeye chekuchengetedza zvine chekuita nekusadiwa (pabonde) kutariswa kubva kuvarume. MuIran, iyi yanga isiri nyaya hombe kupfuura chero imwe nyika yandakarovera. Chaizvoizvo, varume veIran vandakasangana navo pakurova hitchhite vainyanya kuremekedza, vaichengeta chinhambwe chavo uye vairemekedza zvakanyanya. Ehezve, kune nguva dzose pane zvakajairwa matanho aunofanirwa kutora kana uchifamba wega kana nevakadzi chete, asi mukati memazuva makumi matatu nemana andinopedza munyika ino handina kumbonzwa ndisina kuchengetedzeka.
Chinhu chakanakisa ndechekuti kana iwe ukawana kukokwa kumba kwemumwe munhu muIran, haufanire kunetseka nezvekuve wega nemurume asingazivikanwe, sezvo zvanyanya munhu wese munyika ino achigara pamwe nemhuri yavo.
Rimwe ramazuva edu ekutanga muIran, shamwari yangu Lena neni takatorwa nemukomana mudiki, uyo akatikoka kuzodya kumba kwemhuri yake. Yakanga iri imwe yemakokero mazhinji atakawana uye tikatambira. Sezvo isu tanga tichingova nemazuva mashoma muIran, isu hatina kuziva kuti zvaive zvakakodzera kubvisa riini chigumbuso uye riini. Ambuya vepamba vakatibvisira kushushikana nekutiratidza bvudzi ravo kwatiri ndokunyemwerera. Pakati pemasikati, dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri uye shamwari dzakauya. Takatamba pamwe chete, tichidya pamwe chete uye takakunda zvipingamupinyi zvemitauro zvakanyanya nemusanganiswa wechiFarsi, chiTurkey neChirungu, kunyemwerera, kutora mifananidzo uye akawanda mapoinzi. Apo vanakomana pavakatiburitsa kunze zvakare, kuti uende muguta iwe misiyano iri pakati pe- nekunze kwenyika yakanyanya kujeka. Iwo machira emusoro aifanira kudzoka uye kana paine munhu akabvunza isu taifanirwa kunge takangosangana maminetsi mashoma apfuura. Takadzidza nenzira yakaoma nezve izvo zvisina kukodzera, sezvo vakomana vacho vaiita kunge vachanyadziswa nehunhu hwedu 'husingazivikanwe' neruzha uye kutamba kwese kwese mupaki. Kudzokera mukati, taigona kutamba zvakare uye kunakidzwa neanonaka kudya kwemanheru nemhuri yese.
Panguva yekugara kwedu muIran, ndinonyatsokoshesa mbuya venyika zvakanyanya. Chikafu ichi chinonaka kwazvo, uye kunyangwe ndiri munhu asingadyi nyama, vanhu vakaedza nepese pavanogona kugadzira dhishi reIran risina nyama.
Uri kuitei pano, padivi penzira?
Sezvo kutarisirwa kusingadiwe kubva kuvarume kusiri iro dambudziko ipapo mune chero dunhu randakarova, matambudziko akatarisana ane chekuita nekutsanangura vanhu nenzira kwayo zvauri kuita, mashandiro azvo uye kuti havafanirwe kunetseka nezvako.
1. Kutsanangura zvauri kuita
Chinhu chakanakisa chekukwira mota muIran kuenda kunze kweguta, uchipfuura chiteshi chebhazi uye / kana chiteshi uye wozofamba uchipfuura vatyairi vematekisi vese. Ini nemukadzi wangu wekurovera mukadzi (isu takafamba tiri vaviri nguva yangu yakawanda muIran) kazhinji takangotanga kufamba munzira, uye vanhu vanomira zvavo nekuda kwekuda kuona zvauri kuita uye kana vachigona kukubatsira . Imwe nzira ndeyekuita zviratidzo zveguta raunoda kuenda kuFarsi, uye umire munzira.
Kushandisa mazwi ekuti kukwikwidza mota uye autostop hazvina kana nebasa zvachose, sezvo vanhu vasingazive zvauri kutaura nezvazvo. Rangarira, vane nhoroondo yakasiyana neEurope. Iko hakuna mahipi kubva kuma60s, ivo havana kunge vaine chero maruva emagetsi uye kumukira kwevakadzi.
Hafu yenguva, ndakaratidza chinyorwa muFarsi kune vanogona kutyaira icho chakatsanangura kuti tiri kufamba pabhajeti yakaderera (chimwe chinhu chisina kujairika muIran), uye kuti hatitore tekisi, mabhazi kana zvitima. Tinoda kusangana nevanhu vemo uye nekutyaira navo munzira yavo yekuenda kwavari kuenda, kana izvozvo zvakanaka navo futi.
Zvakare kukosha kuti ubvunze kutanga kune mutyairi kuti varikuenda kupi, sevamwe vangangotaura kwaunoda kuenda. Zvichida nekuti ivo vanoda kukuunza iwe uko kubva kune vaeni uye kuda kuziva, kana nekuti ivo vakango shanduka kuita yakavanzika tekisi (uye vanozotarisira mari).
Izwi riri padyo nekukwikwidza hitchh is salaavoti ', zvinoreva chimwe chinhu se ‚yeminamato yakanaka' uye nekudaro yemahara. Ini ndakashandisa iyi imwe hafu yenguva kutsanangura zvataida kuita.
2. Inoshanda sei
Chinhu chinowanzoitika muIran pfungwa yeTarof. Iyi tsika inokonzeresa vanhu kuti vakupe iwe yekukwirisa, chikafu, pekugara kana chero chimwe chinhu kunze kweyakajairika, kunyangwe kana zvisiri zvechokwadi kwavari. Kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti kupihwa ndeyechokwadi kwete iyo - Tarof kupihwa '' zvakakosha kubvunza kakawanda kana chimwe chinhu chakanyatsonaka nemumwe munhu. Paunenge uchirova mota izvi zvinoreva kuti unofanira kubvunza ‚Salaavot zvakanaka? ', Padziva (mari) wakanyanya?', You Une chokwadi? ',, Hapana Tarof?' usati wapinda mumotokari.
3. Havafaniri kunetseka
Ukangopinda mumotokari yemumwe munhu semutorwa muIran, ndiwe muenzi wavo. Uye kana iwe uri mukadzi mufambi uye pasina mumwe murume padhuze, iwe uri wavo mutoro zvakare. Nyika ine anoshamisa maitiro ekugamuchira vaeni, uye vanhu vachakuitira zvese kana iwe ukakumbira (uye zvakare kana usinga). Nekudaro, iyo pfungwa yekukwikwidza mota ndeyekuti iwe unotyaira nemumwe munhu sekureba sezvakanakira mapato ese ari maviri, uye kwete kuti vanhu vatyaire 100km munzira yavo kuti vakubatsire kana kubhadhara bhazi rako (chaizvo, zvinhu izvi zvinoitika zvakanyanya muIran). Kuendesa mutyairi kuti akusiye munzira huru ndiyo yega dambudziko rakanyanya kune vanokwikwidza vechikadzi. Icho chinhu chisina hanya kuita, zvekuti vatyairi vanowanzove nezvinetso nazvo. MaEuropean - iwe unoita chinhu chako uye ini ndinoita yangu, hapana mibvunzo inobvunza 'tsika haishande munyika ino zvachose.
Imwe nguva, ini nemukadzi wangu wandaifamba naye taifamba tichiyambuka mugwagwa mukuru pakati penzvimbo (isu takangoburitswa zvakanaka nemotokari), mapurisa paakauya. Vakatibvunza zvatiri kuita uye kana tichida rubatsiro. Takaedza kuvatsanangurira kuti tanga tanyatsoita zvakanaka, tisingade rubatsiro uye kuti vanogona kutisiya tega. Isu takapotsa tafunga kuti takabudirira, kudzamara tapinda murori uye mota yemapurisa yakangoerekana yave pamberi pedu - ichivharira rori kuti isatyaire kumberi. Vakatirayira kuti tibude mumotokari uye kuti tione mapasipoti edu. Ini ndinofunga vakavhunduka kwazvo kuti taizopinda mumota isingazivikanwe uye kuti takanyatsoda rubatsiro rwavo kuti vabude mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, tisingazive kuti ivo vaitoita zvinopesana. Taiziva kuti vanhu vaishushikana zvakanyanya isu vasikana kana tikavaudza zvatiri kuita, asi kunyatso kumiswa nemapurisa ndokukumbirwa kuti tigare pano ivo vachiuya nemhinduro yekutisvitsa kuTehran - yaive danho rakasiyana zvekushushikana. Pakupedzisira, vakatikwidza mumotokari, iyo yakatiunza kuguta raitevera, uko mumwe mupurisa aive akamirira kutikwidza bhazi. Pakanga pasina nzira yekupikisa.
Nzira chete iyo ini neumwe mukadzi wandaifamba naye takabudirira kurega vanhu vatisiye munzira huru yaive yekumanikidza uye kunanga. Iva wakagadzirira kudonhedzwa pazviteshi zvemabhazi, zviteshi uye mahofisi emapurisa kazhinji, usati wawana zano.
Kupinda mumoyo wetsika
Paunenge iwe uchikwanisa kusvika chaiko nekumhanyisa mota uye wotanga kuinakidzwa, iwe unozogona kuona chaiye Iran. Iran iri kumashure kwemikova yakavharwa, pasi peiyo hijabs uye mukati chaimo memwoyo wetsika. Tsika uko iyo yese mitemo yakaoma inoshanda kune tokunze hupenyu 'inoita kunge isingakoshe zvakadaro. Mukati memota dzavo nedzimba, vanhu ndivo vanosarudza mafambiro avanoita uye nezvavanoita. Ichi chikamu cheIran chausingade kupotsa. Kunze kweizvozvo kwakakosha kuti unzwisise kunyangwe chidiki-diki chevanhu vanonakidza ava.
ZVOKUBVA MUNYAYA INO:
- As soon as you cross the border to the east from either Armenia or Turkey you will get tons of people stopping for you without any problem, but with the sole intention to bring this lost tourist to the nearest bus terminal (next to inviting you for a chai or a meal at their house).
- The best thing is that when you get an invitation to someone's home in Iran, you don't have to worry about being alone with a strange man, as basically everyone in this country lives together with their family.
- For sure, they were still confused and invited us to their houses instead, but the fact that the sentence 'that's is too dangerous for you' was reduced from ten to one time a day shows how big the gender gap is.
